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happy - Music:rise against - swing life away
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bouncy
- Location:res room
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cheerful - Music:feelings show - colbie caillat
My best friend has recently been going through some problems with his girlfriend of like 3 months. The basis of these problems are because they both want different things from the relationship. She wants to go out and have fun and be in a more open relationship and he wants a more serious monogamous relationship. From this has stemmed jealously, fear and insecurity.
Advice....
So I told my friend that he should have a serious heart-to-heart conversation with his girlfriend. Hopefully they will both be able to tell each other how they feel and state what they want from the relationship. I hope they will be able to sort things out, whether they stay together or break-up is anyones guess.
So the whole reason for this is to ask the question, why don't people communicate as much as they should?
Personally, this seems so foreign to me because I'm a blunt and forward person and just says what I need to say. From where I'm standing it seems that this whole situation my friend is in, could have been avoided if he just asked early on, what she wanted from the relationship. He could have saved himself the potential heartbreak (he really fell for this girl) if he was upfront about what he was looking for from the relationship.
So I again I ask, why don`t people communicate as much as they should?
- Location:res room
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confused - Music:ballons - julia nunes
- Location:res room
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sleepy - Music:stop and stare - onerepublic
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happy
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cheerful - Music:beautiful - damian marley
My friend (a straight girl) is amazing! and i mean amazing, like i have never met anyone like her in my entire life. So i'm basically in love with her, but refuse to tell her so, although i do compliment her constantly about how amazing she really is (she used to have a really low self-esteem). I also tell her i love her but you know in the 'friends' way and she tells me it back. We used to talk every night before going to bed, but that has lessened to like once a week because we both have busy lives. Then on the off chance that I get to see her once and awhile, because we live in different cities, she is all touchy-feely with me, which can be really frustrating for me. I just want to kiss her so bad, but I know that it would make things weird between us or worse and i can't bear not to have her in my life. So the only way I get by is by being touchy-feely with her to a point, so we cuddle, i let her sit on my lap, i will rub her thigh, rest my head on her shoulder and talk softly into her ear. You would think she would shy away from me doing this but no! she lets me do it, and always leans into me more and moves closer to me.
So ya thats my rant on my straight girl. if anyone wants to comment or has some advice on this topic go right ahead. maybe you can tell me how 'straight' my friend really is.
- Location:my room
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blah - Music:When Did Your Heart Go Missing - Rooney
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frustrated
Obviously by the title, there is this mystery girl I see in practically all my classes. Today, she was even in my economics class when I know she isn't actually in my class normally. Now it wasn't like she sat near me or anything so the only logical reason for why she was there today is because its a Friday, and my class is the early one. If it was me I would go to the early class too, to start the weekend off early =) So the reason why I write this post is because I'm interested in her. We sit next to eachother is my psychology class, and we always are looking at eachother when we think the other one isn't looking. It's really cute, and so is she. There is just something about her that makes me want to get to know her. I can't figure out what it is, but it could do with the fact that I have never even spoken to her before and we've be sitting beside eachother pretty much since the beginning of school. She's also in my intro to htm course, but I sit nowhere near her and only realized she was in that class like a week and a half ago. Now I'm not a stalker or anything but I've done my homework thanks to Facebook. I know she has a boyfriend and is in the same program as me, but she may have a different major. Either way I'm thinking of starting a conversation with her the next time I sit beside her in class on Tuesday. I'm just not sure how to approach her, but I'm thinking I will just put on the old charm of being blunt and funny. So I know this post is pretty long, so I think I will stop over-analysing this situation and just go with the flow and see if we can at least start by being friends.
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amused - Music:I Don't Trust Myself (With Loving You) - John Mayer
This has gotta be one of my saddest days in awhile. I just heard from my mom, that she had to put our dog Ellie down today. I guess she got out onto the road and got hurt pretty bad. So I've just been crying over the past hour, wondering why, because I never really liked her. Lets just say she was a big pain in the ass but then again she was only a puppy and not even a year old. I guess I cared about her more then I thought. The ironic part is that it was a year ago tomorrow was the day that we put my last dog, Barley down. Maybe its just that I didn't get to say goodbye, whatever it is I'm goin to go back to my sad place.
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sad
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sleepy
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chipper
So just recently I have been getting mixed feelings from one of my best friends. I don't know what is going on with her but it is like she is pulling away from me. Up to this point our friendship has been great and getting really strong, but now it feels like she isn't telling me everything. We talk everyday on the phone and I try to visit her as much as possible, because we live in two different towns. It is just lately I haven't been able to visit her because of our conflicting schedules. I go to school and so does she but she also works on top of that along with our social lives too. I'm fine with not seeing her for a bit but then the phone calls became less, which has been bothering me. I wish I knew why all this was happening so I could try and fix the problem and just go back to the way we were.
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confused
So I am new to LiveJournal, and found out about it from a friend. So I thought I would give it a try and make some new online friends. I wrote some brief things about myself in my profile, and to know anything else about me just ask.
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